Friday, October 16, 2015
A Bad Case of "The Gimme, Gimme Wants"
~St. Francis of Assisi
When Michael was alive he wanted a car with a start button. I told him we didn't need a new car. Now I want a new car. Not just any car, but the car that I test drove in Tucson. It was a thing of beauty. All the bells and whistles!
Even after carefully looking at my finances, it was clear that I could do it, but it would put a bit of squeeze on me. There would be no room for the unexpected. There would be no money for travel!
With help I was able to walk away. Tho, I dreamed of that car. In my dreams I drove and drove and it was wonderful. So I looked at the numbers again. The same result. I did call my parents and was hoping against hope that I would find support there for the purchase. I think Dad wanted to say yes as he has the new car bug too, but then we let Mom enter the conversation. She was resolute in her firm denial of my purchase. Then she gave me some good solid financial advice to follow so that this time next year I would be in a better position to buy the car.
God is like that. He lets us want "things" and lets us figure out if it is a good idea or not. He provides His Mother, Our Mother to go to in times of trouble and confusion. She too has sound advice.
I must admit when I went to the dealership for maintenance I knew I shouldn't look at new cars. I even told everyone do not let me look. But I was led into my own temptation. I saw it, recognized it, and embraced it with all my heart. Then I was in a pickle, a pickle of my own making.
In the Gospel last Sunday Mark tells us about a man who knelt in front of Jesus and asked, "Good teacher, what must I do to inherit eternal life?" Jesus reminded him of the commandments, to which the man replies that he has kept the commandments all his life. Then Jesus tells him..."You are lacking in one thing. Go, sell what you have, and give to the poor and you will have treasure in heaven; then come follow me." At that statement the man's face fell, and he went away sad, for he had many possessions.
There it is, possessions. They own us. We do not own them. I did not need a new car. I wanted a new car.
I thank you for the people
you place in my life.
Especially for the ones,
who tell me what is difficult to hear.
The ones who remind me of who I
want to become.
The ones who love me for who I am.